Whew, sorry if that was hard to follow. I just upgraded WP from 1.2.2 to 1.5 using a Kubrick based template, Pink Lilies (edited for my site). I added the page links code, just as simple as it can be. The pages show up fine, they show up in hierarchy. But when I click on one of the pages, and I'm on that webpage, there is a header "Pages" over there with the links area, but no links under it. I don't have a separate page template, because of the style to theme upgrade.
My url is http://kissmestace.com