i have trawled the internet, been through this forum and i am still stuck, it seems like a very simple problem but its delaying me.
ALL i want to do is have a sidebar menu showing all my pages and their subpages - THAT IS IT. it seems like such a simple thing but io am getting frustrated because i have come across plugins, editing the 'links' and 'categories' widgets to make a menu and other related topics, but is this REALLY that hard? All i want is sidebar menu where i can customise the order of pages and their subpages.
at the moment, every page i create in the dashboard appears as a link in the top AND the 'poages' widget in the sidebar.. PLEASE HELP!