Ok, bare with me.
I've read the page document from codex.wordpress and still can't figure out for the life of me how to link them in my menu on the front page. I have sidebar.php that has all my menu links so i made it viually seen but the linking won't work. If i read correctly the pages are not really even files on my server but info stored in mysql. if so are they even linkable from the homepage or am i going about this the wrong way. If u can't link the pages i don't see the point them as no one can see them accept the admin.
I would really appreciate some help with this as i am new to php... im surprised i even got the thing running.