I see I will try and locate the correct place. I did post the code so it would have been nice if the reply said something like you need to move the code to just before this code and just after this code. Explaination of the code doesn't work for all folks. Visual is better.
Yes I'm fully aware of that and FWIW if your not willing to support users that don't know how to right php you should say it up front instead of posting
It's not that I'm not willing to provide support, but I do have a regular job too, and last I checked, the plugin was free. Sorry that I can't take a large chunk of valuable time out of my day to look at your code and debug your problems, but hey guy, I'm kinda busy.
I'm happy to answer some relatively easy questions because those don't take too long. But if you want me to look at your code and figure out where you went wrong, well, I'm sorry man, but I just don't have that kind of time.
BTW, if you were using a more modern theme that implemented the comment_form() code properly instead of having it's own custom form code, then you wouldn't have to write any PHP at all. It would just magically work.