Sounds like you have registered a connection type, otherwise you wouldn't be able to see your connections.
Have you put any code in your template to show the connections? In the documentation there is a section called "Displaying connected pages/posts". I think you need to play around with this.
FWIW, I have some code at the bottom of my template to show posts that are part of a multi-part article.
The code looks like this..
$multipart = do_shortcode('[p2p_connected type="Multipart Article"]');
echo "<h3>Related articles</h3>";