I noticed that ALL of my pages ended up as a menu option in the header. So, I created a new menu under Appearances - Menus and added only the pages I wanted.
When I did this, it automatically removed the "Home" tab from the header, I'd like that back and to regulate which pages are shown in my header.
I'm customizing on a localhost and therefore can't provide the link to the page, sorry.
Thank you for any help