I can no longer access the admin or view my site tequilacupcakes.com. In fact, to post here I had to re-register my username TequilaCupcakes. My site has not been hacked. I believe it is my own fault.
I have 2 sites hosted through dreamhost, 2nd having been created today. Both have wordpress. But I installed the 1click wordpress on my 2nd site today and used the same email address as I did for putting wordpress on tequilacupcakes.com (I think it even warned me to be careful what email address I used).
Now WordPress does not recognize my username or password on tequilacupcakes.com and I am quite lost how to recover it. I have since changed the email on my 2nd (new) site, naively thinking that would fix it.
Obviously I am a novice and this problem is quite my own fault. :) I would greatly appreciate any help.