Until someone who understand more comes along here is guess work: This WILL confuse you.
You need to validate page, inkluding popup lightbox-test.html (lots of not closed stuff) http://validator.w3.org/check?uri=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.resortsales2x.com%2Ftest-delte.html&charset=%28detect+automatically%29&doctype=Inline&group=0
How this will work I dont know. Seems like site is loading twice, 2 heads almost. 2 set of identical JS and CSS files.
Also it seems like Lightbox Plus picks up link twice. You manage one via secondary lightbox but not no. 2
<td colspan="3"><a class="lbpModal cboxElement" href="http://www.resortsales2x.com/Metapart8.mp4?" rel="lightbox" width="720" height="405">Metapgms Demo Demonstration</a></div></td>
Is that not genuine native Lightbox kicking in?
what will play video? Link goes to
And you start "player" with
<a class="lbpModal" href="http://www.resortsales2x.com//embed/Metapart8.mp4?" rel="Secondary lightbox" width="720" height="405">Metapgms Demo Demonstration</a></div></td>
But now "//embed/" is there. Something going on but what?
I get a download offer. That </div> is one of the HTML errors. When you are doing this popup stuff you should probably not ignore errors. There are a not closed </p> there, another </td> there. Can mess things up badly.
Also right under this you have
http://www.resortsales2x.com/lightbox-test.html - see at the top. Not much action going on.
Browser regard code as normal HTML and the $ will not work because of this http://codex.wordpress.org/Function_Reference/wp_enqueue_script#jQuery_noConflict_wrappers script open, script close and change that $ to "jQuery" will fix this.
Can you drop the extra html file, upload video to vimeo or youtube and get what you see on his page http://www.23systems.net/wordpress-plugins/lightbox-plus-for-wordpress/demos/ Oh that close button is blinking! but nm that. Make it EASY not complicated is what I would try.
Or secret and solution is in how theme works. Layout is all table based from a shop that does not seem to have a clue about WP. They dont have 226 WordPress themes, they have 226 WordPress templates. 7515 in total. Yours is a xxxx-lite version so free I guess. You cant find better on this site? They are also free. Very few will have tables all over the place. So EASY for me would be not to use annoying theme. Why you are on WordPress 3.3 btw? This came as an autoinstall or something? Hmm. Now you dont want to hear more I think ;)
But think, new WordPress 3.5, new proven to work updated theme - you will be so happy. After some cursing about this incident of course. I could be wrong but not 100% ;)