Congratulations, thediamondgirl! That is the default WordPress theme, as you've already been told. Now all you need to do is fiddle around with the theme to make it your own, or perhaps just go and download one of the many that are floating around the web. We can help you with all this too.
And, yea, you're going to need to enable sending referrers. Follow macmanx's link.
[Edit] Didn't see there was a new page of posts. What browser are you using? You should be able to tell based on what program you launch from your computer to go online. Follow the instructions for that in macmanx's link.