Just want to make sure this get's read:
Tried Mingle auto-install and it didn't work for me. Found "5 minutes to Mingle", or something like that, and did the manual steps and in about 5 minutes I was "good to go". BUT, in the setup, it inserted me (the admin) into the "invisible users" list automatically and, although I can select myself in that list...I can't delete myself from it. That means I can't friend others, etc. How do I make myself a visible user???