When i visit your domain
erinmidwife.com and look at your source code, all of your urls still have the fatcow username alias
erinmidwifecom.fatcow.com in them, and
erinmidwife.com/wp-admin is still redirecting to
I wouldn't expect that to be a normal thing. Your site addresses in the WordPress dashboard, and in your source code, should just be your domain name, not the fatcow username alias. If those are anything other than
http://www.erinmidwife.com, then start with that. Make sure there's no redirect/username-alias weirdness in your .htaccess file as well.
Solve that problem, and the other issues will probably fall in line. Maybe your hosts support staff can help you sort out what's going on with the "erinmidwifecom.fatcow.com" issue in the urls on your live site.