I'm looking to host my mySQL database on a separate server and I'm am not sure how much RAM i need for it.
Would 128MB be enough?
I'm running WP 2.3.3 with about 40 plugins and WP-Cache2. We're looking at around 3000-4000 hits a day or so, mostly just visitors who would see the cached pages (with around 100 active, registered users posting once in a while).
I'm specifically looking at Media Temple's mySQL GridContainer service.
Thanks for any advice.