So I am guessing you want an option on your site..
Well….. It looks good. The colors work. There are some faults. I would see what you can do about resizing the tags widget or getting rid of it. The words in it are spilling out. And the visited links CSS, I would change the color to match the active links.
And one more glance at your page.. I hate to pick on you about this but your punctuation is a little off. I say I hate to pick on you about it because I am just as bad.lol A tip to draw people away from it, is to create a static page like an index or home page. In WP case a home page. That way you can work on your grammer and punctuation. As well as your spelling and you present the world as a well put together site.
Other then the above crapolla you have a great site. Keep it up.
thanks for the input! still working on it!!!