however my host seems to NOT be helpful at all!
...Perhaps it's time to consider another host...?
My wordpress websites admin continues to not allow me to log in. It says:
WordPress does not do that, that's a host problem. If it were WordPress you'd get another more verbose error message such as "Bad password for that userid" or something along those lines.
I went to the thread and I think ClaytonJames has been trying his best (Jan waves to ClaytonJames and says thanks) so just to review:
Your WordPress installation is currently located at this URL.
You're currently running the Empress theme from these guys.
Which we don't support here but never mind that for now.
You're running WordPress 3.4.2 which after you get this sorted out you should upgrade.
So try this: Login by clicking this URL.
See if that lets you in. if it does not work then please paste the entire error message you get as a reply here.