Flash embed into "lightbox"

I’m attempting to embed a flash component into my WP template using the “OrangeBox” plugin (http://orangebox.davidpaulhamilton.net/ and http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/orangebox/)

I’m using the following in my index.php file to activate the window and the swf file:

a href=”calendar/source/calendar_large.swf?width=575&height=575″ rel=”lightbox”>calendar

Ok, so this is working fine, and it is opening the window and playing the swf file, but it’s not playing the whole flash component, only the single swf file that I’m referencing in my link.

I’m not terribly knowledgeable with flash, and I’m assuming this has something to do with where I’ve placed the flash folder and getting the paths correct.

So basically I have a folder that contains all of the flash files in its own directory outside of my wp-content folder.

This flash file contains sub-folders for the js, xml, as, fla, html and swf file.

This might be a shot in the dark, but I’m hoping someone has some experience with this and can give me some idea as to the correct placement of these files and which paths need to be changed to get this thing working.

Any help would be appreciated…