Fixing Page Speed & Load Time, Editing CSS, JS & Coding

Hi,

I am trying to improve my website with these recommendations:

1. Decrease my load time to under 4 seconds.
2. Reduce my page size from 2.7 to under 2.0.
3. Combine external JS and CSS — this will require coding that I do not know how to do. I tried going to Freelancer and Envato to see if i can hire someone experienced to fix this but no know seems to know how?? I need to hire an experienced WordPress coder who can fix this. Any recommendations?
4. Blinking dot when loading page — When my page loads initially it shows a blinking dot then after 2-5 minutes the picture and contents appear. I was told that if I move some coding to footer it will show picture instead of blinking dot while page is loading. Problem is this requires coding which i do not know how to do..
5. Need Recommendations for experienced WordPress coders that I can hire?

My site: frankmedinainsurance.com

Any feedback is greatly appreciated!

Thank you,

Frank