Based upon the other support questions posted I don’t think you’ll get a response from the theme author. That said, those social media icons are actually fonts produced through FontAwesome. If you go to their site you can find the icons they support
https://fontawesome.com/icons?d=gallery
I searched for FetLife on there but nothing showed up unfortunately. I’m not sure exactly how your current theme handles those social media links as you are using a version that is different than the one supplied on the official repository on this forum.
The closest you could most likely get is saving the FetLife icon from here
https://fetlife.com/favicons/favicon-32.png
Then try incorporating it into the other icons that you have in that menu/section. You would most likely need to hire somebody to manually configure it on the site for you so that it matches the other icons as well.
I know this isn’t good news and doesn’t solve your issue but just wanted to give you a heads up!
You’re too kind, Jarret, thank you.
I used to do graphic design, hard code front end web design, and hack WordPress back end CSS’s all the time. It was just one of those ‘back in the day’ sorts of things. It’ll be good to refresh the old skill set and make this b!tch mine for a good cause. [wicked smile]
I owe you a hug and a pound cake.
💞🐾