Help! I'm out of commission til this is solved.
Warning: require(../wp-load.php) [function.require]: failed to open stream: No such file or directory in /home/virginia/www/www/wp-admin/upgrade.php on line 18
Fatal error: require() [function.require]: Failed opening required '../wp-load.php' (include_path='.:/usr/local/php5/lib/php') in /home/virginia/www/www/wp-admin/upgrade.php on line 18
I've followed the instructions little by little and am sure I did them all right. What now?