So i have read up on a whole bunch of facebook/wordpress plugins. The one most relevant to what i need seems to be "Facebook comments to WordPress" (http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/facebook-import-comments/) however there are no links to see this plugin ("in action") on the developers site.
Here is what i want to do. I want to design a comment box on my blog (that fits in with the design of my blog) that allows the user to post a comment. If the user doesn't want to sign in to facebook i want the comment to be stored in the wordpress database. If the user decides to to sign in to facebook, then the comment is still entered into the wordpress database but also appears on facebook. Now when ALL of the comments are displayed in wordpress i want it to appear seamless, one comment after another, regardless of whether the user used their facebook account or not.
What i do NOT want is to have 2 different comment fields on my blog, one for facebook and one for wordpress. This separates the two types of comments.
Does anyone use the above plugin? - can they send me a link to how you have it on your blog? If not does anyone know/or use another plugin that does what i am looking for? Can they show me examples?