I'm trying to exclude some child links from appearing in the header (children break the header something fierce and I want to direct-link anyway). The codex is not clear on how to exclude specific pages. When I insert the code it suggests (<?php wp_list_pages('exclude=3,4' ); ?>), it simply duplicates the entire link area of the header without excluding.
This really bugs me as I'm very proficient in html/css, but php is new to me and WordPress isn't making it any easier for me.
Thanks for your time.