If you are trying to embed a feed into your WordPress site, try a plugin or the rss widget. If you are trying to embed a WordPress feed into a non-WordPress site, try a Google search for instructions/options.
I have been reading articles on this all night. One site talks about permalinks and such, but there is no rss permalink option in the wordpress admin panel. My rss feed is http://hotconductor.com/?feed=rss2 but that apparently is not a direct link to the rss feed, so I’m trying to figure out what it is.