Custom WP_Query to pull posts IN category array, but NOT IN category array

I am pulling my hair out trying to achieve a query to get post id’s for the posts which are in a certain category id array, but not in another category id array.

For some reason the SQL request uses wrong id’s..different than the ones I insert.

Here’s my code:

$notInCategories = array('103','106','132','102','10','57','58','28','48');

			$args = array(
					'post_type' => 'post',
					'post_status' => 'publish',
					'order_by' => 'ID',
					'tax_query' => array(
        			'relation' => 'AND',
							 0 => array(
									'taxonomy' => 'category',
									'field'    => 'id',
									'terms'    => array(10,11,12)
							),
							1 => array(
									'taxonomy' => 'category',
									'field'    => 'id',
									'terms'    => $notInCategories,
									'operator' => 'NOT IN',
							)
					),
					'meta_query' => array(
       					'relation' => 'AND',
								array(
								 'key' => 'joke_type',
								 'value' => $type,
								 'type' => 'CHAR',
								 'compare' =>  '='
							 ),
								 array(
									 'key' => 'joke_rating',
									 'value' => 3,
									 'type' => 'SIGNED',
									 'compare' => '>='
								 )
					 )
			);
			$myquery = new WP_Query( $args );
			echo '<p>REQUEST:'.$myquery->request.'</p>';

Here’s what it outputs:
REQUEST:SELECT SQL_CALC_FOUND_ROWS wp_njkf_posts.ID FROM wp_njkf_posts INNER JOIN wp_njkf_term_relationships ON (wp_njkf_posts.ID = wp_njkf_term_relationships.object_id) INNER JOIN wp_njkf_postmeta ON ( wp_njkf_posts.ID = wp_njkf_postmeta.post_id ) INNER JOIN wp_njkf_postmeta AS mt1 ON ( wp_njkf_posts.ID = mt1.post_id ) WHERE 1=1 AND ( wp_njkf_term_relationships.term_taxonomy_id IN (11,12,13) AND wp_njkf_posts.ID NOT IN ( SELECT object_id FROM wp_njkf_term_relationships WHERE term_taxonomy_id IN (11,30,50,59,60,104,105,108,134) ) ) AND wp_njkf_posts.post_type = 'post' AND ((wp_njkf_posts.post_status = 'publish')) AND ( ( wp_njkf_postmeta.meta_key = 'joke_type' AND CAST(wp_njkf_postmeta.meta_value AS CHAR) = 'joke' ) AND ( mt1.meta_key = 'joke_rating' AND CAST(mt1.meta_value AS SIGNED) >= '3' ) ) GROUP BY wp_njkf_posts.ID ORDER BY wp_njkf_posts.post_date DESC LIMIT 0, 10

I can’t figure out WHY IN GOD’S NAME this happens..

Any ideas?