THANK YOU to whomever helps me out!!!
I use bravenet/bravehost. I'm used to it, even thought I have had problems in the past I'm not really wanting to change service providers. Learning curve is the issue, I know how to use what I've already got.
I understand HTML and can manipulate my template.
At some point I read that some of the free bravenet templates are available as wordpress free templates. I THINK the template I used here: http://www.sweettspad.com is one of them. If I'm remembering correctly, that's one of the reasons I chose this template. I'd love to get the matching wordpress template, but I can't figure out how to search for it.
Also, I want to match this site as well, http://www.anotsolazranch.com but not sure if wordpress has this one. If you look at the blog link you'll see that I've already uploaded a theme that looks GREAT, better than the static pages if you ask me, but I want them all to look very similar, and they don't.