Control multiple SWF files on page

I am creating a portfolio for a class I am taking. The portfolio includes examples of some SWF files I have made for other courses. Using SwfObj, I am trying to put multiple SWF files on one page (http://www.beverlybernard.com/portfolio/samples-of-my-work/flash-animation/). The problem I am having is that each SWF file is autostarting when the page is loaded. If I set the autostart to false, there is no way to manually play each SWF, i.e., no user controls.

Is there a way to enable a user control menu (a ‘play’ button) with SwfObj, or is there another plug-in that offers that type of control of SWF objects?

Thanks for your help.