clueless needs help

hi there.
i cannot log in to my site http://www.jaykempen.com
worse still, my ‘reset password’ email does not come through to my gmail account.
worser still, my site has lost it’s theme, looks terrible and doesn’t display all my work.
if you can help me get back into my site, I’ll dance at your wedding.

Thanks in advance, a very stressed
jason kempen