Please could you give me an example of a way you would do it on one of your themes. Seriously as with alot of themes it was probably born from another, so I'm guessing the 'creator' doesn't have a clue.
To be honest the theme now looks unrecogniseable from the one I downloaded, I could add it to some sites as my own and I would know very little about its origins, widget use etc.
Just a kind of I'd call it this and put it there. Maybe then I could work it out.
ARGGGGGGGGGHh been trying to answer this problem for so long and now so close, I just need to make the sidebar navigation like a button with a img background and I'm done.
I can't tell you how much I don't want to start again with a new theme.
And then if I get this far and can't find the answer again #!#&% !!
Alternatively could you suggest a 2 column theme with a standard layout and left-sidebar that would support thye plugin ?
Probably getting sick of me, and I'm sorry about that - like I said I just want to finish this site and frankly probably not use WP again, so not intuative at times Justin.