So many options! I was able to get the site pretty much just like I wanted! Thank you developers!
Well, that was my first post when I gave the theme 5*, then I checked the responsiveness. As others have said, the menu gets ugly, the header doesn't resize. If you put the header in as a logo it resizes, but the menu bar moves to the wrong position and the Logo leaves a lot of white space at the top. It probably has something to do with the search bar.
Yep, that was caused by the search bar. So, I got the header/menus working pretty good but not perfect work-around: I disabled the search bar in the theme's BuddyPress tab (I can use a widget instead) then I moved my Header Image into Logo and set Header Image as None. This solution gave me a little extra white space at the top of the "Logo", probably left over from the margin of the search bar but it beats what it looked like before.
So now my Header resizes and the menu bar stays pretty reasonable.
Hope this helps someone!