It's just painful to see question after question get asked (not just by me) and go unanswered for so long that it eventually just closes and goes forgotten (until someone, like myself, goes looking for an answer on Google and stumbles across yet another answerless question.)
You think anyone likes it? Honestly, I don't mind the abrasive (we all are, god knows I am!) but it gets on everyones nerves when people whinge that we don't help everyone.
Yes, we know. We would love to. We can't. There arent enough hours in the day, and as the snark we get from folks will attest, not everyone is grateful to the volunteers here. Which is why you get a default answer today. Yeah, I did dismiss your post as yet another "why meeee?" which I shouldn't, but we have a lot of em right now, thanks to 3.1 :) so for that, I apologize. But I think reminding you that we're free help for you, and we are volunteers, and asking for a little understanding from YOU is not hugely out of line.
We try. We are not perfect. We cannot humanly help everyone. Maybe if more people helped out, we could, but right now we do our best and welcome anyone who wants to jump in and help! :)
(You might be shocked to find out how many people aren't aware about the volunteer thing, by the way. I thought it was obvious, as I are one, but y'know, I've gotten email telling me that my WordPress employers should be disgusted with me helping here instead of fixing WordPress. So it takes all kinds I guess! :) )