Sorry for sticking my nose into this, but I've been following this topic in the forum's email list as well here (as of today) and I have a few things to say.
@Figaro - While I can certainly understand your frustration with having your links removed, I must say that I feel that your video links should be considered spam and MichaelH is not in error for removing them.
These are not purely video links - Each links to your blog where you have advertising as well as offer Premium WordPress Support for rates well beyond that of the old I'll buy you a beer amount. Basically, I see this as an attempt to rope in new clients. I noticed that you host your videos on YouTube. Have you attempted to post a link to your video on YouTube? If the answer is "no" I would seriously look into your true motivations for posting here.
If you find your motivations are purely to help people, I would suggest that you contact wordpress.tv and request that your videos be added there. They seem to be welcoming:
To recommend a WordPress-related video, request a tutorial or give us some feedback, please use the form below. When you click submit, your message will be sent to us, yay!
If they post your video, then you can link to it all you want without fear of moderation.
I just looked through a few of the threads that you answered and it looks like 15 out of the 30 posts on your user page have moderated links that were most likely backlinks to your website. That's 50%.
Well, looks like we're going to continue to have a problem. Glad to see you are following your own policy:
I checked out this thread to see what was going on, and following the link in question is miles away from following one of your tutorial links. First of all, there is no paid advertising. Second, There are no paid services offered. Third there are no links at all. This is purely a resource the seeks to provide information with no strings attached what-so-ever. I see no similarities in this comparison.
Well, those are my thoughts on this,
Best wishes to all involved,