OK, my google fu is weak on this one.
Trying to learn here more than anything as I don't plan on releasing this theme to the public.... but I'd still like to know
When my theme is installed, the user would need to visit the theme options page once to set the default option values in place.
How do I have an admin message appear when the theme is activated saying just that? preferably with a link to the theme options page.
Gold star for making the message go away once the page is visited