Why cant I do it my own way, WordPress cant do it why can't anyone else...
You can do it your way, I`m just giving you the easiest way. WordPress can and will list comments, try being a bit mroe clear on what you want to do.
I've got a comments_template(), with my own custom comments to be listed, I just need to know how to make the comments go in the right place, nobody seems to know though
comments should be in a list, than the list can be styled with css like any other list, ie set margins, padding, list-style-type, etc. until you get the look you want.