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Hi there
Could someone please help me understand why my posts (questions) keep getting deleted? I don’t wish to cause problems, I just want to understand what I’m doing wrong that warrants the deletions.
I asked a question 4 days ago and then realised that by adding a few more comments to my posting I made it look like it was being dealt with. I thought that was why it wasn’t getting anyone’s attention. So i thought I’d delete it and post it again. But as it couldn’t be deleted I “closed” it (as if it were resolved) and posted it again. Which got deleted. Then I posted it again today but I cannot see it anywhere so I assume it’s been deleted again. All I wanted to do is rectify my original mistake so that I too got a fair chance of being dealt with. Thank you kindly, Maja