Codex question – wp_list_bookmarks and title_li

I am using Modularity Lite theme on http://dariuszczepiel.pl/blog/?lang=en site.

I wanted to have 2 dropdowns with links – In someone else’s eyes (Links category 3) and recommended sites (Links category 8)

<li class="drop"><span>In someone else's eye</span>
        <ul>
        	<?php wp_list_bookmarks('category=3&orderby=name&show_images=0&show_description=0&show_name=0&depth=-1&title_before=&title_after='); ?>
<li class="drop"><span>Recommended sites</span>
        <ul>
        	<?php wp_list_bookmarks('category=8&depth=-1&title_li='); ?>
         </ul>

What I want to achieve is that the name ‘recommended sites’ or ‘in someone else’s eyes’ is not duplicated and shown again right below the dropdown. Unfortunately I read in codex that title_li=0 does not work if you have categorized turned on – and I do.

Is there any way I can hide the title if I want to keep 2 separate dropdowns for 2 link categories ?

Please help