BBPress Forum Seperation by Gender

Hello,

So I am very new to building a site and I need some clarification.

I have installed the bbpress plug in and s2member plugins. So far i have them mostly figured out, however i am looking for some more specific help regarding forum access.

My site is for counselling clients who have dealt with trauma so security is very important. I am looking to have control over who can see the forums based on their gender. I want to have a forum for women, and men, and LGBT community.

I am wondering how I can make forums available to only those with access.

My site will have paid options which I seem to have figured out, but i was wondering if i have control over creating accounts and signing people up.

I hope this is making sense. So i would plan to video verify each member, then create a login for them, then have them choose their level of access ranging from free upwards. once they pay then they would have access based on their gender.

Thanks so much for any help!

https://wordpress.org/plugins/s2member/