Problem with Slide details and Slider Play/Pause buttons on videos

I encounter some problems with the Administration and then the implementation of the slider.

1) When creating a Slider, I can’t change the animation details (duration, direction, etc). the text fields and the drop down menus do not work.

2) when I place the slider on my page, the slides with Videos (youtube for example), when I press “Pause” for the video, the slider starts animating to go to the next slide. I don’t want this to happen. How can I stop it from activating the next slide?

http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/jlayer-parallax-slider-wp/