This is becoming not worth it!!

Just trying to create a legitimate site has been so much of a hassle, which is why I’m reconsidering using WordPress. Permission Issues to use super cache, all plugins deactivating constantly with a invalid header message. Ugh. There hasn’t been one good answer on here about plugins deactivating with the header error message. I’ve heard the problem is the plugins are put into a secondary file that WordPress can’t read. So I go directly to WordPress.com, download the zip file and upload it to my plugins. Problem Solved?? NOPE! Still deactivating. Wow who wouldn’t want to visit my site.
One minute you have icons, and the next they disappear. Awesome