The Ultimate Toolbar Plugin - And the WordPress Toolbar can finally be part of your Social Network site
Very useful and easy to use.
You can customize basically everything, it gives you control about eveything.
Between the the updated toolbar editors (admin ui customize, this one, take control of the wordpress toolbar, and a few others) this one is the best...
By default it cuts out most of the current toolbar menu items and letting you add or remove the ones you want as you please by simply using the default wordpress nav menu editor. Along with styling and adding user roles it pretty much does it all. My only complaint is that it seems to remove most all toolbar items added by plugins and I haven't found a way to add them back or get them to work properly. For example, the jetpack omnisearch does not properly work the same on the front end and back when symposium settings are used, but maybe it's not supported or meant for that.