Ok, here's the issue.
Site in question http://thrashreview.com
I logged into my wp-admin and the Admin Bar didn't show up when viewing site. So I pulled up my code editor (coda on a mac) and to my suprise the php for the "wp_footer" was not there... This is strange because I haven't edited my footer in about a month and they admin bar was here last night at about 3 am. So I added it back right above the body tag in the footer hit save.. and nothing.. Well I say nothing, I did get the little smile back in the bottom left corner.
So I tried disabling my plugins.. still nothing,
I even switched to another theme "Twenty Eleven 1.2 " and still nothing.
The last thing that I did last night was add a news post.. Nothing out of the ordinary.
To top it all of, WP won't let me log in to my account directly.. I have to hit "Lost your password?", enter my email, and hit enter and the next screen will except my login name and password.. This is without ever changing my password.. I just have to use that screen to login.
I also checked another install of WP on another server of mine and it's working just fine. So it's not just me.