I just upgraded my blog to WP 3.5. I had been using Arjuna-X theme, but that's broken in WP3.5, so I'm now using the default 20-12 theme with very few plugins. In the process all my widget placements and menus were lost. I'm slowly putting things back in proper order, but one thing eludes me.
On the top of each page, after the theme header, is what appears to be a top-level menu, starting with HOME, and then listing all top-level pages (and I have a bunch). But I want the menu bar to have only three items: Home, About and Contact Us. I want all the other top-level pages to go away. They are linked-to from a custom menu in the sidebar, so I want them gone from the top.
I looked at Appearance > Menus, but there is no way to remove the top-level pages. I had a custom menu (in the sidebar) that I used in the old theme, but I removed that temporarily, thinking it might preclude working with the primary menu. But that didn't help things.
I'd appreciate any ideas on how to do this. Thank you.