WordPress nav menu

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I am running the Thesis theme and using the WordPress nav menu.
I would like to change the color of one tab on the menu so that it is always red.
I have tried multiple resources via Google and the WordPress forum and am unable to make the change.

I have tried targeting the menu tab #, assigning a unique css to the specific menu tab all to no avail.

I have limited coding knowledge and need help. Any assistance in how I make this work is greatly appreciated.