my server says I am using 150-200 mg of memory / ram on their server, and was killing tons of memory kills. I am not on a vps, but something isn't right.
The site is about my 6 month old child, I know he is cute and all, but there isn't enough traffic to be using that much ram.
We did a clean install of everything today (the sql database, the theme, etc..) Disabled the plugs in, and then installed then one by one, and everyone is stumped at this point.
But I know something isn't wrong...I've had hosted wordpress blogs for years, and have never had any issues like this. It's so frustrating because I keep getting the run around, and spend hours with support, and stil have issues No one seems to be able to give me a straight answer. I'm hoping someone here can take a look at it. Feel free to use the contact form on my site if you want to reply direct. I'd be very thankful to anyone who can help me spot what's going on with my site, and why I'm using crazy amounts of memory on my server.
the site is http://NoahsDad.com