Users Can’t Figure Out How To Post

I’ve had my site http://www.MySecretConfessionSpace.com up a couple of days and visitors/users are having trouble finding how to post. Even once they get that they have to register and login, they can’t figure it out. Then once they return to the site there isn’t a “post” where to take them back to the Dashboard so they can post. I must admit I had the same challenge until I figured out one has to get the Dashboard to make a New Post. They have No Problem with Comments its just getting to New Post/Dashboard that they can’t figure out. I am using an Adsense Theme. I know I must be missing something. I’ve search all through the Forum and I don’t see anything. Its just as ease of use as opposed to a Bug. Thanks for your help!