WP needs to take this situation in hand as a matter of priority
Let's make something very, very clear here.
YOU are responsible for your blog.
Period.
WordPress needs to do nothing at all because, as yet, nobody has shown this to be a bug in WordPress itself. WordPress is a piece of free software, and it owes you nothing.
As far as we care, you're quite free to not use the WordPress software. Maybe using WordPress.com or even Blogger would be better for you. And even here, you're free to complain and ask for help, and we'll try our best to assist.
But there are limits to how far we'll go. You see, in the end, it's like this: Your blog, your problem.
Expecting others to fix your issues is not going to help, because a) we're not going to fix your problem and b) you're going to have to learn to deal with that. Hey, I don't know what the problem with your blog is. The catch to that is that I also don't really much care.
See, what we do on this forum is to try to help people where we can, when we can. If you identify a bug or give us information that helps us identify a bug, great! I'll even try to fix it and get the patch into the next version of WordPress. I'll do everything I can to help you by explaining issues to you. I've even helped many, many people via email. I'll try everything I can to explain problems and fix issues by the medium of text on this forum.
But one thing that we absolutely will not do on this forum is take any sort of responsibility for your problems.
You own the site. You have the problem. You have to deal with it.
If you need immediate and personal assistance, then I suggest hiring somebody to fix it for you. But you're not paying us, and so you have no right to ask anything whatsoever from us. Any help we provide for free is worth exactly what you pay for it. Taking an attitude on these forums is more likely to make those of us who can help decide that ignoring you is simpler.
Got it? Okay then.
Also, this thread is ridiculously long. If you have an issue, start your own thread for that issue. I'm closing this one.