I have the exact same problem could someone atleast point us in the right direction.
i figured it out use a text widget that goes under the header and paste
[kml_flashembed publishmethod=”static” fversion=”8.0.0″ movie=”http://localhost/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/YOURFILE.swf” width=”600″ height=”148″ targetclass=”flashmovie” align=”top” play=”true” loop=”false” menu=”false” quality=”best” scale=”showall” allownetworking=”all”]<img src=”http://www.adobe.com/images/shared/download_buttons/get_flash_player.gif” alt=”Get Adobe Flash player” />
[/kml_flashembed]
will need the kimili plugin for this to work
A better way is to use the weaver theme and paste that code into post header css in advanced settings