This not an excuse for my outburst,but an explantaion.
the guys at gnuker helped me set up my blog. I apologize and will continue to apologize/self-flagellate for being so easliy frustrated. I gotskull fractured a few years ago, for resisiting a robbery, and now, well, I have a short fuse when it comes to small things like WP hacks, my bank account, double booking appointmments.... I figured out what I did, and all is well. If I can remember how I did ( i suffer from short term meomry loss alongiwth the short frustrtation fuse), I'll post it if someone else has the same or similar problem.
As to getting another blog form? I went from a more difficult system (moveable type) to setup, and having memory problems associated with the above injury was even more frustrating than not getting an answer. To the other person yes,I have read Dale Carnegie's "How to Win Friends and Influence People". it's quite a remarkable book. have you read his others?
Re-Learning a lot of things including Patience: 5 years and counting. All I ask, is that you be patient with me and others who may apppear "bitchy"/demanding/rude.
Some of us are dealing with disablity.
Peace, adn remember: Getting hit in the head is definatley not a good thing. :)