side bar meta links

i want to change the meta links that appear on all the sites (wordpress mu, or “multisites”) but I don’t know where this is anymore with WP 3.

Originally I used this post to find them:

You’re using Widget rite? For Meta widget there’s no easy way:

Option 1: Hack the core. Open wp-includes/default-widgets.php. Look for “Meta widget class”. The links should be somewhere under that section.
Option 2: Install another Meta Widget that has the ability to customize. You can search at http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins

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