remove unwanted page links

hi everyone i have a problem which i fear i can,t solve after trying for the last 5days don,t know what else to do i have created my own theme from photoshop spec to html to wordpress php i,m using my own menu images so i haven,t created a menu in wordpress everything works fine but when creating a new page i get the page title links as u can c here http://raystel.com/wordpress/index.php/2011/02/home and the more pages i produce the more links of coarse its a shame i have come this far and now this i have tried locating wp_page_menu: but can,t locate this bit of code i,ve looked in the header.php and the index.php please help someone out there would b greatly appreciated cheers guys