Well, isn't that something, replying to myself. LOL!
But I hope some desperate souls as I was could use what I discovered and FINALLY got rid of INFOLINKS!
1. deactivate and remove plugin
2. /wp-content/themes/your-active-theme/footer.php
In my theme I clicked on "editor" in WP menu, then footer, then found it on that page totally at the bottom, just above /body/
so I removed this whole obnoxious thing, it looked like this:
<script name="124456d8-8096-11df-ab50-1231390698b3" src="http://izearanks.com/itk/show/mayakas-com" type="text/javascript"></script>
<script type="text/javascript">
var infolink_pid = 150615;
var infolink_wsid = 0;
</script>
<script type="text/javascript" src="http://resources.infolinks.com/js/infolinks_main.js"></script>
Voila! What a relief!
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