I commented in post at http://wordpress.org/support/topic/plugin-wordfence-security-locked-out-of-website-and-have-not-received-any-emails?replies=3 but noticed it had been marked as resolved, so I am starting a new thread for my situation.
I elected to have all passwords lengthened and made more secure. In addition, while trying to remember my password for one of the sites, I was locked out.
As super-admin, I received the email to unlock the site for myself, but as one of the site-admins, I am not receiving my reset password emails.
What do I look for?