[Plugin: Anythingslider] Reloading page on click

I am trying to create a movie wordpress blog. I have zero knowledge of programming. I installed anythingslider and put in different slides containing different videos.

The videos are hosted on various video hosting websites like novamov, nowvideo, etc. I don’t upload videos on my blog. I just embed the code. When I insert the slider in my post and click on play the video runs. Now when I click on ‘Next’ the previous video doesn’t pause or stop, it continues running. What I want is that the previous video stops completely (doesn’t pause and loads but stops loading altogether) when a user clicks on next.

I am fine with reloading the page. When the user clicks on next video, the page should reload and the clicked video should play. If it can be done only by reloading the player part then great.

Also, I would be using the anythingslider code in my theme and not posts. How do I make it play slides only of a particular category?

I would really appreciate it if someone could give me step-by-step instructions as I have no knowledge of java or php. I would really be thankful.

I am using an example at: automationseo.com